One rule of the game is that you have to communicate with an opposing team member every day. I am loving all the emails. I am too nice to trash talk like the book says, in order to get the "I want to win" competition going, I don't really feel all that comfortable with that. But I don't think the opposing teams are either. Everyone is so nice. Plus I am talking with people I don't even know, it is really kind of cool. I know - I am a dork.